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Green Forest High School
Spring 2011
The impact this class has had on me is to not have sex, and to change my life around. I used to have sex at least twice a week. But now I don't. I know what choice I have to make. This class has helped me understand that I can say no and not feel bad about it. It helped me get over the fact that I feel used and unwanted. Now I know I don't have to drink or have sex to feel wanted. It helped me understand what a true friends are and how getting prego could hurt my future. And it made me realize that my future MATTERS and I have to set boundaries to achieve my Goals in life.I made the decision to start respecting myself. I will expect respect from my boyfriend and peers. I will not let my past control my future. This class has taught me to be a better person and respect my future. PS. Thank you Mr. Allen for helping me make the decision to demand respect from my boyfriend.I have learned so much from this class that I didn't know. Now I have more reason to say no, I have facts to back up why I said no, and mean it. This whole month and this class has really opened my eyes to how special I am and what God has given me to save for my future husband.I never really knew if I wanted to remain a virgin until I got married because I didn't really believe in marriage because I saw how my parents marriage didn't work out. After this class, I realize that saving my sex is a beautiful thing, and that I can find that special man who also may have the same goals as me, or at least respect mine.I came into the class thinking It would be stupid and I wouldn't learn anything. I learned all the risks that I would be taking if I ever made a bad choice in my life. I learned how I can make myself a better daughter, granddaughter, sister, friend, and person. Thanks!I think this has had a positive impact for me. I feel that now no mater what has happened before I don't have to let it break me down. And I can use this information to make better more informed decisions I also feel that I am more informed to help others make decisions or learn. This class educated me more of the effects of sex and drugs. Now that I am more educated, I can teach my little brother and sister when they become older and how to protect themselves.In this class I learned that even though I've already gave my virginity away I still have time to choose to not have sex. I've learned that I'm a better person. And in this class I know its important to be checked... hat's why come Thursday at 4:30 I have an appointment to be checked for any STDs.This class impacted me by reminding me that it is my choice and that my future is in my hands. I have learned that saving my sex before marriage is more safer for me and my husband.I've learned that my past will not dictate my future. That all thats in the past will not make me who I am in the future. The rest of my life will be what I make it to be.I learned so much! I knew a little about STDs before this but didn't really think much of them 'till now. I really do think that Im going to think twice before I have sex again. Thank you for helping me realize that I should save myself for the person Im going to marry and that I really am special.It made me want to get tested. I shared what I learned here with my girlfriend and friends. It made me want to not have sex with any more than I already have because of risk of STDs. I learned symptoms of which I have and my girlfriend has. Me asking her to because of this program caused my girlfriend to go get tested. I realized how unsafe we are if we take the choice of having sex outside of marriage. I have one life, I'm responsible for it, need to take care of it. Even if it were a VERY good-looking guy, its alright to say NO Children are a blessing BUT at the right time. Keep saving my sex for marriage! Reality Check gave me information in a short time, I wish we had this as a class.It reassured me of the things I already know and the values I already have and the virtues I already follow. The things that have been discussed in class allowed me to me more proud and joyful in my current relationship. I will hold the lessons of Reality Check for the rest of my live. Thank You!It reinforced my commitment to be abstinent till marriage. Reality Check showed me ways I can reassure my boyfriend we arent in a bad situation we are perfectly healthy. It helped me help my friends that are in twisted situations. Lastly it boosted my ok self-esteem.At the end of the day when we spoke about our goals someone said I have a lot of dreams but they are going to be a reality. And Mr. Allen emphasized on that and it made me realize that the goals I set for myself can very much be a reality and I need to make the right choices and be responsible to achieve those goals. Thanx!I liked the fact that Reality Check, Inc. focused on choices. The speaker relayed the information without trying to tell people what they should and shouldn't do. He relayed the facts and dangers of risky behavior and then left the choice to us.Mr. Allen has to be one of the greatest teachers I have ever had. He has taught me that sex isn't just sex it is a personal value that we must respectI would just like to thank Reality Check for everything I have learned. This class was amazing. We had a great time and joked around, but we still learned. Thank You Reality Check for everything.I learned that I should not risk getting any STD's whatsoever. I learned that partying, drinking, doing drugs, or having sex isnt nearly as fun as it is on movies or shows. I learned that there is a difference between love and infatuation and how to spot things that might hurt me. I learned other things too but this index card is only so long.Maybe sex is worth something to more people than me. Maybe I'm worth something.I have learned very much in this class I have been changed for life because of what I have been taught. I will begin to practice controlling what I do in school or out of school. I have made a decision in here to save my sex for my future spouse in future years to come, I do not want any part of anyone else besides my future wife. I have also learned of many new-life-threatening diseases that could take my life and that is not a risk I am willing to take. I will not do drugs, alcohol, or tobacco in my life on this earth. Thank you Mr. Allen, and may God bless you for everything you have taught me!I have decides to have more self-control.I learned that your sex does have value. And that your past doesn't matter and you can make The ending better that it would be. This class made me realize that I disrespect myself by the way I act and joke around.Having sex all the time and the risks that I am taking. I have been with seventeen girls and am going to try my hardest to wait until I find the right girl. Thank you for all the info. And you have changed me a lot.It made me feel that I can do anything if I try and if I set some boundaries.Well, Ill be honest. I really thought this was going to be stupid and that I was going to hear the same everyone says. But you helped open my eyes and now Ill think twice Thanks I was sexually active, but I decided to wait! I didnt realize I was putting so much at risk Thanks for coming. I learned that I can do and learn whatever I put my mind to. I learned how to respect myself and others. Now I tell my girlfriend to wait to have sex cause we need to respect each other and she agrees to. Now I see things differently and clearer.This class is so awesome. I don't have chance to learn about this in my country. I hope you will teach another students that never have chance to know. I mean like keep doing this. Thank You!I learned that I really have value and that I should hold it until my marriage. Also that I should respect others values because they can think that they have no value.It made me understand all the causes of sex and value is more important and I'm going to get tested and even with all the mistakes I made, I can still turn my life around. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!This class has made me realize I want more for my life. I have realized my rose is almost gone. But now I am saving the rest and picking up what I lost. A new Year deserves a new beginning.Sex can be fun, but I have to be careful with what I do with my choices in life. Waiting for the right one isnt bad. I can't wait to tell my wife that I have been waiting all my life for her and her only!This class was a great class because it has shown me how valuable my life is and how its going to help me make choices and help my little sister and brother and telling them how it is important to save sex for marriage and Thanks you for what you have shown me it will help me a lot.It opened my eyes to something that I have been ignoring, and has got me to think in a different way.This class has taught me to be able to tell my boyfriend Im just not ready and I want to wait. This class had a lot of impact on me. It showed me a lot of stuff and I realized that no matter what I have to be the one to make decisions, no one but me. No one can make me do anything. I have the choice and to be the bigger person. I don't want to be full of regrets with my future.A very big impact because some of the thoughts I had before I know now how valuable your body is and why you should save sex till marriage. I have thought about having sex a lot and I almost gave that up so Im happy we had this class because now I know not to have sex till marriage!It has showed me that even though you may have made some bad decisions. You can still go and make a huge change in your life. Reality Check is a great program and should be offered in all schools to save teens lives.It made me feel more confident of myself. It taught me what risks there are in life. Most importantly helped me to make better decisions of goals and my future.I don't want to make a choice that will prevent me from reaching my goals. I don't want to risk my health by having sex so I plan to save my sex for when I get married. This class has taught me about all the risks I am taking by making a bad choice and who all it can affect.Through this class I have learned that every single person matters and by everyday decision-making, everything matters. I have learned a lot of the percentages of stuff thats going on and how serious it can be.In this class I learned a lot. I learned to respect myself and that I do have value. My decisions have changed a lot since this class. I will wait until marriage and I will also never do drugs or alcohol. I've learned about relationships and I will try and not do anything that will be a mistake. My goals are something that might change over time but I will do anything I can to reach them.Helped me realize that saving your sex until marriage is important and safe. You'll have a better relationship with your partner. Also help me from temptation of doing things I know I'll regret in the future. Also to really look and think about my goals and what Im going to do in the future. I've learned so many things but I cant put them all in the card.I learned that sex is not just a 4-letter word. I learned that even though I have had sex before that I can still save my sex for marriage and have renewed virginity. I have learned how to respect myself enough to say no and actually mean it. I have learned that you cant make a new beginning but you can make a new ending. That is what I plan to do. I liked this program and think they should do it every year.Im glad I had this class because it taught me how to make smart and better choices and how to make smart and better choices and how to have a better healthier life. It helped me have more value in me and more respect towards me my body my health and other people. It showed me that having sex is not the main thing in life or the cool thing to do because any day you can be like them but they can never be like you once they've had sex. Thank you.I understand that sex was risky before. I never really understood how risky though. My first thought was always pregnancy. I don't want to get a girl pregnant. Now I know just how many other risks there are. I love that this program came to our school, not just for my sake but for my friends. I have friends that are sexually active and don't care. I don't want someone to ruin their life before it starts. This program was awesome and informative. Thank you.The eight day program, Reality Check with Mr. Allen, showed me that there is life beyond my uncertainty. It will pass and my dreams, if I stick with them can become a reality. All obstacles in my way now are just practice for what the real world will have in store for me. I believe everything happens for a reason and I should take life as it comes, never let anything stop me and enjoy it!Reality Check helped me to realize that there is a bigger picture in life and that every decision we make matters, and can play a key role in our future. It also helped me to see how proud of myself I am for making good decisions and keeping them when others try to pursued me otherwise.I think that reality check was a great eye-opener as far as the health stand point to sex goes. I mean, who actually knew that a guy still has a 50% chance and a girl 75% chance at getting gonorrhea even with a condom? Even though I take responsibility for my choices pertaining to sex, it was good to have a week to just remind myself of the dangers of sex. Its not something I think about everyday. However, I know there are a lot of my peers who dont take responsibility for their sex life at all and maybe they never thought of these things at all.. I'm grateful that reality check provided this opportunity to my peers and our community. We really needed it! This class made me think twice about my future. I always knew that I had worth and value, but this class has help me and reminded me about what decisions I want to make in the future. Now I know that saving my sex till marriage and not doing drugs will help me be a successful person in the future. All this information about sex, drugs, and STDs has made me things about the decision I made, and will make. Because every decision I make, will always have a consequence rather good or bad. Thank you for all this helpful information.
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